So, I was thinking, and it came to my realization that I have people reading this blog, that really don't know anything about me. They don't know why I blog...heck, even the people that do know me, don't know why I blog. This got me thinking even more about something someone I know mentioned the other day. They knew why I blogged. And you know what, they were right.
I am first a mom and a wife. On most days, this is what I wake up and feel like. This is what defines me. The first thing I do when I get up is either feed my son, or cuddle with my son and my husband. The day goes on, changing diapers, feeding my son, or going to gymboree. When do I get to do anything for myself? Well, right now. I blog.
Before becoming a mommy, and before becoming a wife I was someone who identified herself as an aspiring dancer, someone who wanted to be an attorney, a daughter, a caring friend, a smart intelligent women who had different dreams and goals. Today, my dreams and goals might be different, but they are no less important, I don't cherish them any less. I still want to be a great attorney, a great friend, and yea, I'd love to keep dancing. Now my dreams have just grown. I want to be an amazing mom and wife. I want to instill the best values in my son that I can, I want to help him be the person he will want to be.
And, I blog because, hell, I was in law school working my butt off and consuming myself with every possible activity I could do. I don't know how to just be a mom, or just be a wife. I need to take on more, I need to feel like I am helping a whole lot more. So, this is what I do. I like sharing my experiences and my thoughts...and I hope you enjoy reading about them.
Also, thank you to all my Friday Followers! Can't wait to visit your blogs!
Friday, February 5, 2010
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Awesome! I hope you can accomplish it all! Blogging is fun!
ReplyDeleteThanks for following me - following you back. Hope you have a great weeknd♥
I understand the need to do something for yourself! That's exactly why I blog!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the follow! I am following you as well!
Have a great weekend!
I started my blog as a way to record my children's milestones, etc. and I found that I really loved blogging, as an outlet and a way to connect with others going through the same things I was. It's something I could never give up...it's a litlte piece of me now!
ReplyDeleteFound you through SITS!
I LOVE our blogs. I JUST posted a post today about WHY WE BLOG! It is very nice to meet you!
ReplyDeleteI am a new reader from the FF list. Please come follow back if you would like. I am doing some great giveaways right now and have some great ones coming up! Nice to meet you!
Thanks for stopping by & following me! Following you back! BTW, it looks like my daughter & your son are the same age; she was born Dec 12th '08. :0)
ReplyDeleteVisting from SITS and this is a great post. I was just thinking about my reasons for blogging the other day. You said it so eloquently. :)
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