We started potty training this past weekend. My little man decided that he had enough with diapers and refused to put them on. Well, before his brother was born he had just about every possible sign of being ready to go diaperless. You know, telling you when he was going to go, going longer hours without wetting his diaper, being "private" when he was going...we had it all. That is, except an eager mother and father. We had our hands full, we still do. The prospect of running back and forth between a peeing toddler and a screaming newborn just didn't sound appealing. Well, it still doesn't, but we decided that there was probably going to be no better time. The only thing worse than the former scenario is a crawling baby who is bound to get into everything.
So, alas, we have begun. I don't know what I thought, but I definitely thought that my son would be the 2 year old trained with the "3 day potty training." Yeah, not so much. I read the book, being passed through email from one mom to another. Sure, he's got the point...you pee, you get a sticker. Getting there in time is the problem. We've had quite a few shrieks of, "Mommy, pottttttttty." The look on his face says it all, he's already gone. Let's just say things are a lot messier at our house this past week. And what is it with the fear of using toilets at other places?? This little boy refuses to pee at my mother in laws house, same potty seat and all. Patience is key with all things in parenting and I guess this will just be another notch in my belt. Someone, please pray for me.
For those of you thinking about partaking on this adventure with me, here are some signs of readiness:
- Your child stays dry at least two hours at a time during the day or is dry after naps.
- Bowel movements become regular and predictable.
- Facial expressions, posture or words reveal that your child is about to urinate or have a bowel movement.
- Your child can follow simple instructions.
- Your child can walk to and from the bathroom and help undress herself.
- Your child seems uncomfortable with soiled diapers and wants to be changed.
- Your child asks to use the toilet or potty chair.
- Your child asks to wear grown-up underwear.